A goal can be defined as: “the purpose to which an endeavour is directed, an objective or outcome.”
Coaching and mentoring are typically goals focused. It should be a creative and thought-provoking process that inspires the coachee/mentee to maximise their personal and professional potential. The coach/Mentor is there to assist in a collaborative, solution-focused systematic approach whereby the coach/mentor helps identify goals and then guides the participant to a solution that is right for them.
Supported by the coach/mentor, goal-focused self-regulation is a process through which the coachee/mentee sets a goal, develops a plan of action, begins the action, monitors performance, evaluates their performance by comparison to a standard and, based on this evaluation, changes their actions to enhance their performance further and better reach their goals.
Although displayed as such, the stages of the process should not be seen as separate instead they are interlinked and overlapping and may well require review along the way (the importance of monitoring and evaluation).
Feedback is critical here to enable the process. Our ability to receive and give feedback in a non-judgmental, non-defensive way is the key here in learning, observing, and developing.
There are over 20 different types of goals. Different goals require different approaches, and your discussion may require a different process for attainment. It is beneficial that these goals align with the coachees/mentee’s values and motivations, hence the importance of undertaking the Values and Motivation exercises before discussing goals. Goals aligned with our values provide us with intrinsic motivation to achieve them. Understanding an individual's intrinsic motivation is key.
When setting goals, we must get the right balance between credible and aspirational. A new graduate to an organisation may set a goal of being the CEO in 12 months. Very aspirational but potentially not that credible. When we set goals, it is also important to potentially “chunk” them down. The example below is about being “promoted” as a goal – break this down into smaller areas with tangible achievements. Once we break goals into smaller sub-goals, we see more clearly what is needed. An essential part of this is also building self-efficacy. (The self-belief and confidence in one’s own ability.) When we start to achieve small goals, we feel a sense of achievement; this helps us move on to the next one.
We suggest constantly breaking down and exploring goals into achievable tasks.
This is not a comprehensive list of questions, but it will provide a framework to determine more about the goals discussed. Be prepared to explore each question further. Remember the points above about the types of goals and the value and motivations of the coachee/mentee.